Tattoo suggestions for mother and daughter.....?

My daughter is 17 and I'll soon be 42, neither of us have ink..... my daughter wants a tattoo and I suggested we get mother/daughter ink..... she loves the idea!! I thought she'd hate it and decide against the idea of a tattoo..... no such luck.....anyway....... I told her I would take her for a tat if we got mom/daughter tats..... she likes the idea of a four leaf clover with a "13" on the inside.... I like the idea of a lotus flower..... are we nuts? Does anyone have suggestions?

Tattoo suggestions for mother and daughter.....?
I think it is a good idea, just be sure to get something that means a lot to the both of you, this way you'll be less likely to regret it. Also make sure you are absolutely sure that you are going to like what your getting, and where, it is going to be there forever. I have many tattoos and have thought about each one a lot before getting it, they all have meaning to me and represent different times in my life. I really like her idea about the four leaf clover and the number 13, but if you like the lotus flower, then maybe you two could get tattoos that are similar but have your own twist on it. The experience of getting it together is something you will remember forever, so I think it is ok if the tattoos aren't exactly alike, but it is really up to you two. Also make sure to research the tattoo shops you are going to, make sure to look through there portfolio of pictures and see there work. Below is a design I really like with a clover, it doesn't incorporate the number 13, but a good tattoo artist should be able to work it in there.





http://tattoo.about.com/library/graphics...





Another clover design I really like


http://www.flickr.com/photos/44364748@N0...





A couple Lotus flower Ideas;





You could personalize the middle of this one.


http://www.flickr.com/photos/49107843@N0...





This is a nice abstract one.


http://www.ratemyink.com/images/ul/174/i...





Good luck to you both on making a decision, let me know how it goes.





MFK
Reply:My mom and I discussed getting tattoos together. I came up with the idea of two puzzle pieces that represented our connection. It also represents that neither of us is complete without each other. Each of us would have one puzzle piece with the other's favorite color. We haven't actually gotten them yet, it's still in the "idea" phase, but I hope to do it some day. I think it's a great idea, it's something unique to share, especially if it's a common interest.
Reply:Think about your interests, hobbies, and things you share in common. Maybe you both like horses and can get a tattoo of that. A tattoo should mean something to both of you not just be a pretty flower. Also what about your nationality? If your Irish a clover would be cool. What are some things that remind you of your roots. There are so many things that make you and your daughter special think about these things and Im sure you will come up with a great tattoo. good luck.
Reply:My mother and I just went and got our tattoos done together a week ago. We both have always liked cameo jewelry so we descided to have our artist do our's like the Heaven's gift cameo. I think the best idea is to find something special between the two of you and do that. We are both extremely happy with our tattoo's and though it wasn't the first for either of us it really was great getting them done together.
Reply:first of all why 13? is that a significant number? do you have a place for it in mind?why a clover...remember you have to wear it too...i personally think a tattoo should have some meaning...ya a pretty flower that matches your daughters is nice..but wouldnt it be more special if it was more like...when she was little she use to go pick me daisies behind our house and every summer and now we will never forget those special times. my sister in law and her mother have 2 matching tats..the first one they got was small to see how they would like it...they got matching toe rings. they both love to go sandal shopping together..thus toe rings...they loved it soo much they now have a matching blue star on the top of their foot..its cute
Reply:You definitely are nuts, but it has nothing to do with the tats!





That is so cute, mother and daughter ink! How bout half of a tiny heart - so together you make a whole.





Where are you going to put them - arm? ankle? neck?





You are very brave, I'd probably opt for a henna tat before trying the real thing!
Reply:Oh, that's very cool! You guys aren't nuts! I'm 17, and my mother and I have talked about it. :)





I do like the four-leaf clover "13" thing, very ironic, and funny. Cute, too!
Reply:Gettin Inked together should make this tattoo special enough for the two of you! If you are unsure about the tattoo. Don't do it! Go with a positive mind! Have fun! And enjoy the time you're spending with your daughter!
Reply:yeh, thats a neat idia!! I think yall should get the flower put on yalls foot of lower back. That would look very sexy, cute. I hope I helped and good luck on the tattoo.
Reply:no lots of mothers and daughters get tattoos.


i think its a really cute bonding experience.


if you dont like her idea, and she doesnt like yours


try chinese symbols for mother and daughter
Reply:I like the lotus flower idea too !!!
Reply:try a lotus flower with "13" on it


tattoos? that'll be so kewl!
Reply:I think both ideas sound generic ..be creative get a tat that means something not what any old carnie worker has.
Reply:Do a search online on some tattoo sites, type in all those that you're looking for to get an idea of what's out there. I'm sure there's lots of stuff out there with clovers and definitely with lotus flowers. Then get all the pictures you like, and if you can draw-great draw up something, or else take it in to a good reputable shop and they should be able to draw what you describe to them exactly what you'd like. I'd recommend going for something unique and original(they usually love drawing original stuff anyway), as opposed to something that's already on the wall-just my opinion though.





Another thing to keep in mind for both of you guys, not sure what occupation you have or what you're daughter plans on, but get it in a place that can be covered easily if need be. I"m hearing of places now making people wear long sleeve shirts in the summertime to cover up tattoos. I have a few, and that's one thing I don't regret, and actually rather surprised I had enough common sense to do years ago lol, is being careful about where I got them placed.


Good luck!
Reply:I think this is a bad idea. Tattoos compromise the immune system, are expensive, and tend to be addictive. Like drugs, they are usually used to avoid making the internal changes that are indicated when a person wants a change. An external change will not be rewarding or exciting for long and a new one will be desired. At seventeen, your daughter probably needs your permission to get a tattoo because she isn't old (wise) enough to make such a decision on her own. A much better choice would be to use the money she would spend on a tattoo to do something worthwhile in the world and/or do some volunteer work in the community. I have worked in a prison. It is unusual to see an inmate who doesn't have a tattoo. Like the pants worn hanging down, this "fad" originates largely from and is about as healthy as that environment.